tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8902179632740561852.post4581670373272161897..comments2023-10-05T08:43:27.995-06:00Comments on THE DISCIPLINED FEMINIST: Is DD really just domestic violence?Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8902179632740561852.post-20881517346547841662014-04-10T06:39:01.112-06:002014-04-10T06:39:01.112-06:00We live a DD life and in no way is it abuse
www.d...We live a DD life and in no way is it abuse<br /><br />www.domesticdisciplineuk.ning.com<br /><br />Princess x1950princesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09603407372158712593noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8902179632740561852.post-72138886163232385602013-06-26T00:30:25.447-06:002013-06-26T00:30:25.447-06:00Very well said. Very well said. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8902179632740561852.post-46587911068684423842012-06-15T23:21:12.298-06:002012-06-15T23:21:12.298-06:00I appreciate your post so much. I was in what I th...I appreciate your post so much. I was in what I thought was a DD relationship, but the emotional and verbal abuse, the anger and control, were definitely not what I expected. <br /><br />He would just as soon blow up, leave for a few days, and give me the silent treatment for many more days when he finally returned than to spank me, though he did enjoy spanking me when he was in a good mood, play-act as disciplinarian.<br /><br />I now fear that anyone who would be willing to spank me would not be capable of the loving behaviors that go along with a mature DD relationship. <br /><br />So I wonder if I will ever be able to find someone who can give me what I need AND be a good person who is willing to have a relationship based on mutual understanding and respect.<br /><br />I also know what a loving, if vanilla, relationship can be, as I was married to a wonderful man who died five years ago. I want that again, and will have to do some healing work before I am ready.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8902179632740561852.post-8145799822888576612012-02-02T14:37:51.048-07:002012-02-02T14:37:51.048-07:00Thanks, Kathryn! For reading and for commenting.
...Thanks, Kathryn! For reading and for commenting.<br /><br />I don't post new articles much these days, but I always read and appreciate comments!<br /><br />Warmest,<br />VivVivianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11008724776478015660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8902179632740561852.post-3902992418092158932012-02-02T14:35:57.295-07:002012-02-02T14:35:57.295-07:00Vivian, that is a truly beautiful and literate pos...Vivian, that is a truly beautiful and literate post. I'm so glad to know you found the partner that could help you reach your greatest potential. I cringed at the descriptions of the abuse you suffered and marveled at the inner strength you possessed to emerge from two such terrifying encounters with a wounded, but not beaten, spirit. A true survivor.Kathryn R. Blakehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15772415563451755090noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8902179632740561852.post-58862191358016206852011-12-29T04:50:18.158-07:002011-12-29T04:50:18.158-07:00What a beautiful articulation of DD. If only more ...What a beautiful articulation of DD. If only more people truly understood what it was really about and didn't just cry "domestic violence!" out of ignorance. Furthermore, it takes an incredibly strong woman in an incredibly trusting relationship to engage in DD properly - hardly the hallmark of abuse!!<br />I see my wife now growing stronger as a person everyday and she is continuously believing she is beautiful, funny, intelligent and kind - all things she never believed of herself before. This is down to continuity in love, trust and loving discipline and I thank God that I found my wife and DD. <br /><br />Blogs like this draw the dividing line between true love and evil abuse - more people should quash their ignorance through reasding. Well done!<br /><br />God bless xxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8902179632740561852.post-12227149642299197772008-10-06T04:01:00.000-06:002008-10-06T04:01:00.000-06:00This is terrible all what you went through. I feel...This is terrible all what you went through. I feel sorry for you.<BR/><BR/><I>The more my partner and I practice DD, the more empowered I feel, both in and out of the relationship, and the stronger and more capable I become.</I><BR/><BR/>That should be the aim of any loving relationship, whether DD or not...aquariuxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02341014611765592382noreply@blogger.com