tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8902179632740561852.post9186595381907478702..comments2023-10-05T08:43:27.995-06:00Comments on THE DISCIPLINED FEMINIST: When It's His IdeaUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8902179632740561852.post-12794609787966855422017-02-28T16:06:40.247-07:002017-02-28T16:06:40.247-07:00> --Kneel, take lil' Master {his penis} out...> --Kneel, take lil' Master {his penis} out … lick him … suck him<br /><br />LOL, I've never met a man who'd admit to his "Master" being "little". Perhaps that's what's caused the problem to begin with.<br /><br />Also, he is very trusting. Trusting your "little thing" to a very angry woman before the source of her anger is addressed just might result in it permanently becoming even "littler".Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8902179632740561852.post-91923566026427341932011-05-19T20:41:12.388-06:002011-05-19T20:41:12.388-06:00My husband and I have been in a LDD marriage for 2...My husband and I have been in a LDD marriage for 24 years. I still do things that I shouldn't (I am not perfect) and I have been blessed with a husband that sets me straight. I appreciate that he is still willing to put in the necessary time that i need from him. He will order me to strip and lecture me on my behavior. Very humbling. Usually nudity puts me in a submissive place to listen and respect what he is saying (he stays dressed). then over the knee. By now he knows if my tearful apology is sincere or just trying to make him stop so he never lets me off the hook. I am grateful that my HOH is man enough to stand up to me and give me the spanking I know have coming. It is my pleasure to thank him afterward. He supports me, cares for me, provides for me and there is no reason he shouldn't discipline me too. Especially if I have been lazy with the house work while he works all day. i must admit, when he calls me "naughty" during my spanking, it really hits a nerve. But I know he's right and I need his discipline and I am grateful for it. I am lucky to have a man who embraces LDD so completely.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8902179632740561852.post-75365413667796015922011-01-26T10:31:38.300-07:002011-01-26T10:31:38.300-07:00Not being disrespectful but I don't think the ...Not being disrespectful but I don't think the sucking idea will work because like the lady says if u r upset it will be hard to do that. Also ur husband can think that u r trying to manipulate him by sucking his penis to get ur way. I tried that one time when we were first married....asked if I could suck his penis and he said yes, baby....very happy that I had asked.....then after a few minutes I took him out of my mouth and said "I wanted to ask you about something". He EXPLODED because he thought I was trying to manipulate him and told me to never disrespect his penis that way again.....immediately began spanking me and when I tried to argue and explain it just got worse and I was punished pretty hard. The next day I wrote him an email and explained what I was trying to do. He said okay let's come up with another plan: Instead of me asking to suck him because I want to lead up to saying I'm mad about something, he told me I can at any time ask to speak to him about something that has made me upset, and after he says yes, I am to remove my clothes, kneel with my hands on my head, and then say what's on my mind. It really works....even though I may be crying, it's impossible to be disrespectful when I'm nude and kneeling, so it works out fine. We even have had some really nice moments folliwing that....he will have me stand up and hug me after we've resolved the problem, and since I'm nude that will often lead to making love, and often he will have me go back down on my knees to suck him to sort of show that everything is okay.And to thank him for listening to me.<br /><br />And also.....you'd be surprised at how something that used 2 seem like a HUGE deal suddenly doesn't seem that way when you know you have to kneel before him nude to talk about it.....it has a way of making me say "never mind" sometimes, and moving on. lol!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8902179632740561852.post-79591689487002903182011-01-17T10:32:05.241-07:002011-01-17T10:32:05.241-07:00Hi Happier Wife,
Thanks for reading and posting.
...Hi Happier Wife,<br /><br />Thanks for reading and posting.<br /><br />There's no quick answer to your question, but here's the beginning of one, maybe. We tend to become what other people see us as and to live up (or down) to their expectations -- have you tried treating your husband as though he were already the alpha male you want him to be?<br /><br />Warmest,<br />VivVivianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11008724776478015660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8902179632740561852.post-43090622169621213372011-01-12T11:33:51.798-07:002011-01-12T11:33:51.798-07:00Hi Vivian,
My husband and I are new to the DD. I ...Hi Vivian, <br />My husband and I are new to the DD. I want to embrace it fully my husband states that he does as well, however I am not sure. I enjoy the daily maintance spanking, but I always have to request them. How do I get my husband to become more of the alpha male and enjoy spanking me. I want him to feel empowered and in control. To make decisions (little everyday ones) without counsulting me. I want him to lead our family unit. Please help!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com