tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8902179632740561852.post4634613982114320373..comments2023-10-05T08:43:27.995-06:00Comments on THE DISCIPLINED FEMINIST: The Courage to Submit: An Unlikely Role ModelUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8902179632740561852.post-38873560589707218872017-05-31T10:51:17.596-06:002017-05-31T10:51:17.596-06:00Corporal punishment is the norm in this school. Th...Corporal punishment is the norm in this school. The choice to get paddled was hers. I don't see how community service gets more respect for the rules. wilddoghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13351237977174784665noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8902179632740561852.post-51834156888054858732017-05-31T10:47:54.327-06:002017-05-31T10:47:54.327-06:00Paddling isn't very common in US schools these...Paddling isn't very common in US schools these days. However, in some places, mainly the rural South, it still is practiced. In this school it seems like the norm, although it appears that the majority of the students being punished opted for the additional half day of Saturday school instead of the paddling. I think both the principal and Nancy behaved well in the video. The principal didn't let her off easy because of her status but gave her hard swats just like the boys. Nancy took her punishment and got her behind tanned without complaint. Although I detected a tear or two behind the forced smile when she left the principal's office.wilddoghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13351237977174784665noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8902179632740561852.post-17518522337825246592014-11-13T05:31:04.564-07:002014-11-13T05:31:04.564-07:00There is a part of me which are touched by her pun...There is a part of me which are touched by her punishment and it is only because I am male. I believe that corporal punishment should be outlawed by the very same reason.<br /><br />She would have so much more respect for the rules if her actions would have resulted in community service (cleaning, painting, gardening work).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8902179632740561852.post-26172731373993558182010-06-02T15:10:37.255-06:002010-06-02T15:10:37.255-06:00The video "Nancy's Punishment" is qu...The video "Nancy's Punishment" is quite obviously fake. The girl doesn't even have the proper AR accent. Aside from that, I've heard from multiple sources that none of the stuff on the show, "The Principal's Office," is real. It is all scripted and acted out. It would have to be for them to catch some of the stuff that they catch on camera. Also, Ive heard from sound specialists that the impact sounds were added in. Aside from that, Ive heard from students from some of the schools where the show takes place and they say its all faked and planned out. Its about as real as pro wrestling.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8902179632740561852.post-81224410633088429102009-11-02T07:39:25.840-07:002009-11-02T07:39:25.840-07:00I have to say that I don't think this was real...I have to say that I don't think this was really punishment. I feel that if she gets to choose her punishment, then it is not very effective. She chose a paddling rather than a whole days detention, so she should have gotten the whole day of detention. She obviously would rather not lose a whole Saturday. <br /><br />I was paddled twice in school, and neither time was I given an option about it. It's a funny thing, but in elementary school, we feared getting paddled (I was scared half to death about what was coming during the lectures that my principle gave us prior to the paddling), and I never repeated my misdeeds again. Same as when I was spanked at home. By the time I got into high school, my friends and I always hoped to get a paddling rather than lines or detention. A paddling lasts less than a minute and then its over. Other punishments take up precious time when we could have been goofing off.<br /><br />Of course a paddling at school is very different than a DD spanking. If I were to stop at three licks with the paddle with my girl, she would get very resentful towards me and feel hurt and uncared for. This is the big problem we had when we got started in this lifestyle. I didn't understand her need for discipline, and so I did not spank near hard enough or long enough. It's been over a year and I still have to make myself punish her as hard as she needs, which is well past my comfort zone.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8902179632740561852.post-51705252215136966262009-08-04T10:28:32.772-06:002009-08-04T10:28:32.772-06:00Thanks! I'll give that a try, now that I know...Thanks! I'll give that a try, now that I know how to find it on You Tube.<br /><br />Warmest.<br />VivVivianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11008724776478015660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8902179632740561852.post-87925715862826918552009-08-04T10:20:17.011-06:002009-08-04T10:20:17.011-06:00Not sure how to get this to you... so I'll jus...Not sure how to get this to you... so I'll just tell you what I did. It's on YouTube called "The Principal's Office - Nancy's Punishment". There's a firefox extension called DownloadHelper that allows you to download the file directly, or there are other ways of downloading YouTube videos if you don't like that.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8902179632740561852.post-75891078649531389572009-07-03T07:18:39.343-06:002009-07-03T07:18:39.343-06:00Yes, it is nice to see TV crews with a sense of re...Yes, it is nice to see TV crews with a sense of respect, though this credit may well lie with the school board or officials.<br /><br />I was paddled several times in junior and senior high, and it was no big deal. Once, in drafting class, the whole class got it for taking advantage of the teacher's temporary absence to leave class and school early (last class of the day). The only reason I was not paddled was because I was absent that day! I wonder if it works better alone or as a group: perhaps the group aspect would offer a binding as a group of miscreants. Hmmm.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8902179632740561852.post-64053672599432371502009-06-26T22:48:30.025-06:002009-06-26T22:48:30.025-06:00Thanks for posting the link to the clip. Nancy doe...Thanks for posting the link to the clip. Nancy does indeed seem a strong, well-centered girl. It’s touching how young people can sometimes present virtues like fairness and dignity in their simplest forms. My butt hurts, but I’ve earned this punishment and I accept it. Getting my ass beat embarrasses me, but I am not demeaned by it.<br /><br />You’re also right about Principal Halter honoring his responsibility to his student by keeping the punishment so matter-of-fact. The paddling wasn’t abusive or weird because he’s not. It wasn’t kinky for him; he just wanted the girl to get to school on time.<br /><br />Finally, a tip of the hat to the filmmakers for staying outside the door during the actual paddling. It’s nice when someone on TV knows when to stop.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8902179632740561852.post-49295877120718144852009-05-20T12:50:12.814-06:002009-05-20T12:50:12.814-06:00I don't think she's a spanko, really, like the per...I don't think she's a spanko, really, like the person who posted right before this. I don't--I think it's simpler than that. She viewed the paddling like ripping off a bandaid. I couldn't imagine any of the kids I went into highschool with NOT making that decision--it's either that, or you don't get to sleep in. <br /><br />It would have been a very different deal if she wasn't allowed a choice in the matter, like we really don't as DD folk. I mean, yes--it's consentual, but not on a spanking-to-spanking basis. At least, not for a lot of us--not for me. But I can't tell my husband right before a spanking that I opt out of it. There's no 'opt'. Like the rule book the school follows, there's a sort of "rule book" where I understand that if I do the crime, I get a certain punishment, and that's that. And there's solice in that, too. I at least know what's comming, what his reaction's going to be, and a lot of wives DON'T know how their husbands will react when they do something wrong, so in that case, I have a one-up. <br /><br />It was an excellent documentary, no doubt--but I don't know if I emmulate her. I mean, I think she's a brat, and I think that 3 swats were nothing compaired to what she needed. She liked to think that because she was attractive, she required more leeway than someone who wasn't, and instead of blow-drying, or waking up early to do so--they got their ass to class. Classic teenage egotism. Also, I think she was WAY too happy after the paddling. This is what I took away from it when she said, "Oh, it wasn't too bad"... I heard, "Now that I know how not bad it is, I'll just sleep in on Monday, too." A good punishment is supposed to frighten you away from doing bad, so I don't think she got a good punishment. As the person before me said: She will be paddled again. In fact, probably for the same thing. <br /><br />But I do really like the principal. He was a good male-role model and punishment-dealer. He actively listened to her, he made it seem like he cared--but he was unwavering. That, I really liked. Thanks for sharing that with us!Koreyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14174636566887356519noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8902179632740561852.post-15506849723448694822009-05-19T11:21:00.000-06:002009-05-19T11:21:00.000-06:00There is absolutely no punishment here. She has do...There is absolutely no punishment here. She has done nothing but <br />"Bratt" her self into a paddling. What she got into trouble for, being tardy is very minor. She negotiated what she was going to get. And since a lot of kids get paddled there is not any social stigmatism to it. <br /><br />I have known a lot of people who wanted to get paddled in school and did things to get one. But this was in situations where there were enough paddlings so you know what you were going to get. <br /><br />She is obviously a spanko. She fulfilled a fantasy of older male punishing younger female. I love your description of the fantasy and I enjoyed both videos to a point.<br /><br />I understand the realty too well to truly enjoy watching it. When I was in ninth grade in Florida teachers were allowed to paddle. Quite a few obviously enjoyed it and enjoyed making the kids cry. <br /><br />A co-worker from Texas said that most of his teachers could make even the toughest football player cry on one lick. And a lot of the students were crying even before the paddling in front of the whole class.<br /><br />I betcha this girl has to get paddled again. I know if I had been able to control the paddling to the extent she has I would have gotten it a lot.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8902179632740561852.post-30043647132945732272009-05-17T12:33:00.000-06:002009-05-17T12:33:00.000-06:00Hi Debbie,
Thanks for reading and commenting!
I ...Hi Debbie,<br /><br />Thanks for reading and commenting!<br /><br />I think you're absolutely right. It's the acceptance of her punishment as normal by those around her that help her to talk so freely about it.<br /><br />I think for me personally one of the goals I've always strived for was that kind of experience with my partner.<br /><br />DD relationships seem to work best when discipline has been practiced to the point where it's a normal part of everyday life rather than something odd or experimental. <br /><br />To me, at least, that's where the real closeness, safety and bonding start to come. <br /><br />When I was in grade school, there was one particular girl who got paddled pretty frequently. She and the teacher had such a comfortable, relaxed relationship (in a non-creepy way) and I always wondered if the paddlings contributed to that (or vice versa).<br /><br />Warmest,<br />VivVivianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11008724776478015660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8902179632740561852.post-57466334729556648792009-05-17T12:28:00.000-06:002009-05-17T12:28:00.000-06:00Nancy's ability to talk about the aspects of her p...Nancy's ability to talk about the aspects of her punishment without hesitation or shame is probably due to this being a "normal" part of life, as a teenager in a school that uses corporal punishment. If adults hear about her being paddled they might think she deserved it, and some might even tell her so, but they wouldn't think there was something "wrong" with her. Likewise other students are going to view it as a "fact of life" in their school. <br /><br />Nancy may feel some amount of embarrassment about being paddled -- I think the video shows that she does feel that, and admirably braves her way through it. But she knows that the punishment she received is finally just something that sometimes happens to kids at her school.<br /><br />DebbieAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8902179632740561852.post-36690435258997186012009-05-15T07:26:00.000-06:002009-05-15T07:26:00.000-06:00I like what you say about Nancy being a partner in...I like what you say about Nancy being a partner in her own punishment. To me that is the key to making a punishment really work. It isn't a matter of one person imposing his will on another, but of two people coming to an agreement and then following through so that they both gain a sense of closure. It takes strength and courage from both partners for this to happen. MeowMeowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05807600710251731849noreply@blogger.com