tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8902179632740561852.post3587086820162745272..comments2023-10-05T08:43:27.995-06:00Comments on THE DISCIPLINED FEMINIST: Humiliation vs. HumilityUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8902179632740561852.post-89508314348565640792009-07-08T00:10:54.228-06:002009-07-08T00:10:54.228-06:00Whom ever it is that writes the Lovingdd blog appe...Whom ever it is that writes the Lovingdd blog appears to have personal issues that has clouded their approach to the topic. The writing on the lovingdd blog, whilst once insightful to a small degree, has over time become tired and redundant. obviously the need for the author to remain incognito has coloured the articles with a detachment that appears as arrogance and borderline ridiculousness. How often can the same material be recycled and still claim to be relevant? NEXT!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8902179632740561852.post-69335310993750499692008-01-15T15:50:00.000-07:002008-01-15T15:50:00.000-07:00Yes, there's a big difference between humility and...Yes, there's a big difference between humility and humiliation. If humility is the quality of being humble, then the right word for inducing this state is the verb "humble" instead of "humiliate." Some domination or control tactics can be felt to be very humbling without being humiliating. Then again, humiliation is a very subjective thing. <BR/><BR/>I'm not easily humiliated, and some specific activities that others may regard as "humiliation" are things that I regard only as humbling, and that I find thrilling and fulfilling as a clear demonstration and reinforcement of the man's power and dominance. But then, I'm not really into "discipline" for its own sake, or for making me be a "better" person, etc. Mainly I'm into in the romantic fires kindled by the forceful control imposed by a strong, dominant man. <BR/><BR/>I regard some "humbling" tactics as being at the far end of forcefulness, domination and creativity, and I can find that exciting as it brings out my own deep erotic surrender and spiritual adoration of the man. Spanking is okay too, but there are other things that seem much more dominating to me, or even humbling. That's where my desires pull me.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8902179632740561852.post-5711814442393833612007-12-10T11:53:00.000-07:002007-12-10T11:53:00.000-07:00Personally, I am not a fan of the LovingDD blog as...Personally, I am not a fan of the LovingDD blog as I find his attitude towards women somewhat patronising, also i dislike the idea that DD is all about helping me to become a better person etc. For my husband and I, it is more a way for us to get along better, it helps him to get over any annoyance he feels with me to be able to 'take it out on your bottom' as he puts it, and it makes me feel more compliant and eager to please, but I don't find it all humiliating or embarrassing, i have always had a strong craving to be spanked and I still do. I much prefer being spanked for real reasons rather than just for 'fun', and I find nothing humiliating about it at all.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com